Independence did not mean chauvinism and narrow nationalism.
Bosnia is a complicated country: three religions, three nations and those "others". Nationalism is strong in all three nations; in two of them there are a lot of racism, chauvinism, separatism; and now we are supposed to make a state out of that.
Actually, since I'm gay I think I should count for two guys instead of just one.
I mean, in me you get the male point of view and you don't have to worry about me wanting to touch your boobies.