Grace is the absence of everything that indicates pain or difficulty, hesitation or incongruity.
Worldly faces never look so worldly as at a funeral.
They have the same effect of grating incongruity as the sound of a coarse voice breaking the solemn silence of night.
Incongruity, they say, is one of the main ingredients of humor.
Maybe it's because everybody can feel superior to me. I honestly don't know.