Let others lead small lives, but not you. Let others argue over small things, but not you. Let others cry over small hurts, but not you. Let others leave their future in someone else's hands, but not you.— Jim Rohn
Sensational Hurting Someone quotations
It hurts because it matters.
Love is acceptance. When you love someone . . . you take them into your heart, and that is surely why it hurts so much when we lose someone we love, because we lose a part of ourselves.
Everyone says love hurts, but that is not true.
Loneliness hurts. Rejection hurts. Losing someone hurts. Envy hurts. Everyone gets these things confused with love, but in reality love is the only thing in this world that covers up all pain and makes someone feel wonderful again. Love is the only thing in this world that does not hurt.
A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart, and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the words.
Forgiveness must be immediate, whether or not a person asks for it.
Trust must be rebuilt over time. Trust requires a track record. If someone hurts you repeatedly, you are commanded by God to forgive them instantly, but you are not expected to trust them immediately, and you are not expected to continue allowing them to hurt you.
Even if a person hurts you, give him love.
The worst punishment is to throw someone out of your heart... You should love everyone as God, and love each other. If you cannot love each other, you cannot achieve your goal.
There is someone that I love even though I don't approve of what he does.
There is someone I accept though some of his thoughts and actions revolt me. There is someone I forgive though he hurts the people I love the most. That person is......me.
Your value does not decrease based on someone's inability to see your worth.
When someone hurts you, your first thought may be to wish you had never met them at all. But remember that even those who've hurt you, came into your life for a reason, and left for a reason. It’s for the best and healing starts with acceptance.
It is less hurtful to compel a man to marry someone whom he does not love than to follow a religion in which he does not believe.
The truth is... everything counts. Everything. Everything we do and everything we say. Everything helps or hurts; everything adds to or takes away from someone else.
Every time you judge someone else, you reveal an unhealed part of yourself.
We are all broken by something. We have all hurt someone and have been hurt. We all share the condition of brokenness even if our brokenness is not equivalent.
Bad things are always going to happen in life;
People will eventually hurt you, but you can't use that as an excuse to hurt someone back.
If someone has offended you, insulted you, or disappointed you, let it go! If you are remembering all the ways you have been hurt or forgotten, let it go! Ask yourself, what good does it do for me to hold on to this?
Everyone comes with baggage. Find someone who loves you enough to help you unpack.
If someone hurt you, abandoned you, betrayed you.
.it says nothing about your meaningfulness but everything about their character.
When we think we have been hurt by someone in the past, we build up defenses to protect ourselves from being hurt in the future. So the fearful past causes a fearful future and the past and future become one.
You will always be too much of something for someone: too big, too loud, too soft, too edgy. If you round out your edges, you lose your edge. Apologize for mistakes. Apologize for unintentionally hurting someone - profusely. But don't apologize for being who you are.
Tact is the ability to tell someone to go to hell in such a way that they look forwad for the trip.
I have talked about choosing rather than acting from compulsion.
When you feel that you have to live according to someone else's direction or live so that you never disappoint or hurt anybody, then your life is a continual assessment of whether or not you please other people.
God knows, I never want to hurt someone's feelings.
It is the law of life that if you are kind to someone you feel happy.
If you arecruel you are unhappy. And if you hurt someone, you will be hurt back.
Before you heal someone, ask him if he's willing to give up the things that made him sick.
What goes around, comes around.
Think before you speak, your words could hurt someone's feeling more than you intended it to.
You can forgive someone almost anything.
But you cannot tolerate everything...We don't have to tolerate what people do just because we forgive them for doing it. Forgiving heals us personally. To tolerate everything only hurts us all in the long run.
When someone disrespects you, beware the impulse to win their respect. For disrespect is not a valuation of your worth but a signal of their character.
Well, when I think of steroids I think of an image.
You have the advantage over someone, which is a form of cheating. I guess it wouldn't be right unless it was legal for everybody. Reason it's not legal for everybody is because it can hurt people seriously.
I suppose everyone tells little white lies.
Quite often they're necessary to make someone feel better or prevent feelings from being hurt. Whoppers? No, that's dangerous and they'll boomerang.
If you round out your edges, you lose your edge.
It's better to cry than to be angry; because anger hurts others, while tears flow silently through the soul and cleanses the heart.
Real love amounts to withholding the truth, even when you're offered the perfect opportunity to hurt someone's feelings.
It's easier to hurt someone and make them cry, than it is to dry their eyes.
Maybe there is something you're afraid to say, or someone you're afraid to love, or somewhere you're afraid to go. It's gonna hurt. It's gonna hurt because it matters.
The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.
I had never been this mad at her before.
It was one thing to be attacked by someone you hated, but this was something else. This was the kind of hurt that could only be inflicted by someone you loved, who you thought loved you. It was sort of like being stabbed from the inside out.
How far would you go to protect your family? I'm a father, I'm a son, I'm a grandson, and I'm a husband. If someone were to hurt the women in my life and the law didn't take care of it, what would I do? Pretty awful things.
I've learned.... That when you plan to get even with someone, you are only letting that person continue to hurt you... More
Just do what works for you, because there will always be someone who thinks differently.
Anger is a poison. It eats us inside. We think when we hate someone we hurt them, but hatred is a curved blade, and the harm we do to others we also do to ourselves.
Honesty is the cruelest game of all, because not only can you hurt someone - and hurt them to the bone - you can feel self-righteous about it at the same time.
The bottom line is, insults only hurt when they come from someone I respect.
If you love deeply, you're going to get hurt badly. But it's still worth it.
Loving someone is tiring and it hurts, but it's not something I can stop.