95+ Harold S. Kushner Quotes On Education, Religion And World

Rabbi Harold S. Kushner is an American rabbi and author. He is best known for his book, "When Bad Things Happen to Good People," which deals with the problem of evil and suffering. He is a rabbi of the Conservative Jewish movement and has served as a spiritual leader for Congregation Beth El in Massachusetts since 1972. Following is our collection on famous quotes by Harold S. Kushner on education, religion, leadership.

Top 10 Harold S. Kushner Quotes

1. Our souls are not hungry for fame, comfort, wealth, or power. Our souls are hungry for meaning, for the sense that we have figured out how to live so that our lives matter.
2. If you concentrate on finding whatever is good in every situation, you will discover that your life will suddenly be filled with gratitude, a feeling that nurtures the soul
3. Think about it: it is easy to see God's beauty in a glorious sunset or in ocean waves crashing on a beach. But can you find the holiness in a struggle for life?
4. We are here to change the world with small acts of thoughtfulness done daily rather than with one great breakthrough.
5. What cannot be achieved in one lifetime will happen when one lifetime is joined to another.
6. Why bad things happen to good people
7. In all my years of counselling those near death, I've yet to hear anyone say they wish they had spent more time at the office
8. When you are kind to others, it not only changes you, it changes the world.
9. You don't become happy by pursuing happiness. You become happy by living a life that means something.
10. I'm not perfect, ... But i'm enough

Harold S. Kushner Short Quotes

• There is no right way to do a wrong thing.
• Caring about others, running the risk of feeling, and leaving an impact on people brings happiness.
• One man alone can't defeat the forces of evil, but many good people coming together can.
• When facing a dilemma, choose the more morally demanding alternative.
• Our awareness of God starts where self-sufficiency ends.
• You nourish your soul by fulfilling your destiny.
• Being kind to others is a way of being good to yourself.
• I wish i spent more time at the office.
• Only a life of goodness and honesty leaves us feeling spiritually healthy and human.
• Fun can be the dessert of our lives but never its main course.

Harold S. Kushner Quotes About Life

When your life is filled with the desire to see the holiness in everyday life, something magical happens: Ordinary life becomes extraordinary, and the very process of life begins to nourish your soul. — Harold S. Kushner

I am quite confident that the most important part of a human being is not his physical body but his nonphysical essence, which some people call soul and others, personality... The nonphysical part cannot die and cannot decay because it's not physical. — Harold S. Kushner

We do ourselves and others a disservice when we make old age something to be feared...The longer we live, the more life we possess. — Harold S. Kushner

Given the unfairness that strikes so many people in life, I would rather believe in a God of limited power and unlimited love and justice, rather than the other way around. — Harold S. Kushner

The circumstances of your life have uniquely qualified you to make a contribution. And if you don't make that contribution, nobody else can make it. — Harold S. Kushner

I am convinced that it is not the fear of death, of our lives ending, that haunts our sleep so much as the fear that as far as the world is concerned, we might as well never have lived. — Harold S. Kushner

I think of life as a good book. The further you get into it, the more it begins to make sense. — Harold S. Kushner

Other people may complicate our lives, but life without them would be unbearably desolate. None of us can be truly human in isolation. The qualities that make us human emerge only in the ways we relate to other people. — Harold S. Kushner

Pain is a part of being alive, and we need to learn that. Pain does not last forever, nor is it necessarily unbeatable, and we need to be taught that. — Harold S. Kushner

You cannot control what happens to you in life, but you can always control what you will feel and do about what happens to you. — Harold S. Kushner

Harold S. Kushner Quotes About World

The small choices and decisions we make a hundred times a day add up to determining the kind of world we live in. — Harold S. Kushner

When I talk to people who feel this emptiness and lack of fulfillment, I recommend they find a source of balance in their lives. I suggest they find a way to "give back" to the world in order to feel a sense of completeness. — Harold S. Kushner

None of us has the power to make someone else love us. But we all have the power to give away love, to love other people. And if we do so, we change the kind of world we live in. — Harold S. Kushner

Harold S. Kushner Quotes About Love

When you carry out acts of kindness you get a wonderful feeling inside. It is as though something inside your body responds and says, yes, this is how I ought to feel. — Harold S. Kushner

Love is not like a buffet line where the person in front of you threatens to take too much and leave too little for you. Love is like a muscle; the more it is exercised today, the more it can be used tomorrow. — Harold S. Kushner

Our society puts too much emphasis on finding someone who will love you; our culture focuses too much on being loved and not enough on being a loving person. — Harold S. Kushner

One of the basic needs of every human being is the need to be loved, to have our wishes and feelings taken seriously, to be validated as people who matter. — Harold S. Kushner

Harold S. Kushner Quotes About Inspiring

The happiest people I know are people who don't even think about being happy. They just think about being good neighbors, good people. And then happiness sort of sneaks in the back window while they are busy doing good. — Harold S. Kushner

God, who neither causes nor prevents tragedies, helps by inspiring people to help. — Harold S. Kushner

Our inability to see the beauty doesn't suggest in the slightest that beauty is not there. Rather, it suggests that we are not looking carefully enough or with broad enough perspective to see the beauty. — Harold S. Kushner

The purpose in life is not to win. The purpose in life is to grow and to share. "When you come to look back on all that you have done in life, you will get more satisfaction from the pleasure you have brought into other people's lives than you will from the times that you outdid and defeated them. — Harold S. Kushner

Harold S. Kushner Famous Quotes And Sayings

People who pray for miracles usually don't get miracles. But people who pray for courage, for strength to bear the unbearable, for the grace to remember what they have left instead of what they have lost, very often find their prayers answered. Their prayers help them tap hidden reserves of faith and courage that were not available to them before. — Harold S. Kushner

But at the end, if we are brave enough to love, if we are strong enough to forgive, if we are generous enough to rejoice in another's happiness, and if we are wise enough to know that there is enough love to go around for us all, then we can achieve a fulfillment that no other living creature will ever know, we can reenter paradise. — Harold S. Kushner

Integrity means being whole, unbroken, undivided. It describes a person who has united the different parts of his or her personality, so there is no longer a split in the soul ... For the person of integrity, life may not be easy but it is simple: Figure out what is right and do it. All other considerations come in second. — Harold S. Kushner

We can endure much more than we think we can; all human experience testifies to that. All we need to do is learn not to be afraid of pain. Grit your teeth and let it hurt. Don't deny it, don't be overwhelmed by it. It will not last forever. One day, the pain will be gone and you will still be there. — Harold S. Kushner

We have confused God with Santa Claus. And we believe that prayer means making a list of everything you don't have but want and trying to persuade God you deserve it. Now I'm sorry, that's not God, that's Santa Claus. — Harold S. Kushner

One of the most sublime experiences we can ever have is to wake up feeling healthy after we have been sick. — Harold S. Kushner

Integrity is not something that grownups have and adolescents can aspire to. Integrity is something that all of us, at all ages, are constantly striving for. — Harold S. Kushner

People are so busy chasing happiness- if they would slow down and turn around, they would give it a chance to catch up with them. — Harold S. Kushner

Never attribute to malice or other deliberate decision what can be explained by human frailty, imperfection, or ignorance. — Harold S. Kushner

The idea is to find some bit of holiness in everything-food, sex, earning and spending money, having children, conversations with friends. Everything can be seen as a miracle, as part of God's plan. When we can truly see this, we nourish our souls. — Harold S. Kushner

Prayer is simply coming into the presence of God. Because when you come into the presence of God, even the things you don't have matter a lot less. — Harold S. Kushner

When a mentally retarded child is born, the religious question we often ask is, "Why does God let this happen?" The better question to pose is to ask, "What kind of community should we be so that mental retardation isn't a barrier to the enjoyment of one's full humanity?" — Harold S. Kushner

I suspect that the happiest people you know are the ones who work at being kind, helpful and reliable - and happiness sneaks into their lives while they are busy doing those things. It is a by-product, never a primary goal. — Harold S. Kushner

There are some things we should feel guilty about, but the guilt feelings should attach to the deed, not to the doer. — Harold S. Kushner

Sometimes we are simply "blown away" and in awe by finding ourselves in the presence of God. Other times, however, even when we are participating in acts of kindness-complimenting others, writing a check to charity, donating time to a good cause-we are oblivious to the miracle of what is happening at that moment. — Harold S. Kushner

There seems to be something in the human soul that causes us to think less of ourselves every time we do something wrong... And maybe it is good for us to feel that way. It may make us more sensitive to what we do wrong and move us to repent and grow. — Harold S. Kushner

We do ourselves and others a disservice when we make old age something to be feared. Life is not a resource to be used up, so that the older we get, the less life we have left. Life is the accumulation of wisdom, love and experience of people encountered and obstacles overcome. The longer we live, the more life we possess. — Harold S. Kushner

. . .We are here to finish God's labors. . .so that we could be His partners in completing the work of creation. — Harold S. Kushner

We teach children how to measure and how to weigh. We fail to teach them how to revere, how to sense wonder and awe. — Harold S. Kushner

It explains why people come home from work or school and immediately switch on the television. They are not interested in the program much of the time, they do not even know what is on. But they are desperate for the sound of another human voice in their lives — Harold S. Kushner

Our human bodies are miracles, not because they defy laws of nature, but precisely because they obey them. — Harold S. Kushner

Our responding to life's unfairness with sympathy... may be the surest proof of all of God's reality. — Harold S. Kushner

There is a Jewish notion that holiness is found with other people. To understand what life really is, one has to share it. — Harold S. Kushner

We tend to take on the coloration of the setting in which we find ourselves. — Harold S. Kushner

The path to God is rarely a steady climb upward. We climb, we fall back, and we climb higher again. — Harold S. Kushner

Is there an answer to the question of why bad things happen to good people?...The response would be…to forgive the world for not being perfect, to forgive God for not making a better world, to reach out to the people around us, and to go on living despite it all…no longer asking why something happened, but asking how we will respond, what we intend to do now that it has happened. — Harold S. Kushner

Many biblical verses are like inkblot tests, revealing more about us than about the text in question. — Harold S. Kushner

God is the light shining in the midst of darkness, not to deny that there is darkness in the world but to reassure us that we do not have to be afraid of the darkness because darkness will always yield to light. As theologian David Griffin puts in, God is all-powerful, His power enables people to deal with events beyond their control and He gives us the strength to do those things because He is with us. — Harold S. Kushner

Life is like the baseball season, where even the best team loses at least a third of its games, and even the worst team has its days of brilliance. The goal is not to win every game but to win more than you lose, and if you do that often enough, in the end you may find you have won it all. — Harold S. Kushner

History is written by winners, so most history books are about people who win. — Harold S. Kushner

Good people will do good things, lots of them, because they are good people. They will do bad things because they are human. — Harold S. Kushner

You don't have to be religious to have a soul; everybody has one. You don't have to be religious to perfect your soul; I have found saintliness in avowed atheists. — Harold S. Kushner

If we put our soul into our work, if, rather than just going through the motions, what we do flows from the deepest part of our being, then after a burst of creativity, we need to replenish our souls. — Harold S. Kushner

The soul is not a physical entity, but instead refers to everything about us that is not physical - our values, memories, identity, sense of humor. Since the soul represents the parts of the human being that are not physical, it cannot get sick, it cannot die, it cannot disappear. In short, the soul is immortal. — Harold S. Kushner

Forgiveness is a favor we do for ourselves, not a favor we do to the other party. — Harold S. Kushner

I believe that God is totally moral, but nature, one of God's creatures, is not moral. Nature is blind. — Harold S. Kushner

Everything that God created is potentially holy, and our task as humans is to find that holiness in seemingly unholy situations. When we can do this, we will have learned to nurture our souls. — Harold S. Kushner

No good deed ever goes wasted. — Harold S. Kushner

God is like a mirror. The mirror never changes, but everybody who looks at it sees something different. — Harold S. Kushner

The God I believe in is not so fragile that you hurt Him by being angry at him, or so petty that He will hold it against you for being upset with Him. — Harold S. Kushner

Do things for people not because of who they are or what they do in return, but because of who you are. — Harold S. Kushner

We pray to you, O God ... for strength, determination, and willpower, to do instead of just to pray, to become instead of merely to wish. — Harold S. Kushner

It is because you have the typical American habit of seeing everything as a test. You see the mountain as your enemy and you set out to defeat it. So, naturally, the mountain fights back and it is stronger than you are. We do not see the mountain as our enemy to be conquered. The purpose of our climb is to become one with the mountain and so it lifts us up and carries us along. — Harold S. Kushner

Children need parents who will let them grow up to be themselves, but parents often have personal agendas they try to impose on their children. — Harold S. Kushner

If that were God's plan, it's a bad bargain; I don't want to have to deal with a God like that...My sense is God and I came to an accommodation with each other a couple of decades ago, where he's gotten used to the things that I'm not capable of and I've come to terms with things he's not capable of...and we care very much about each other. — Harold S. Kushner

One of the sages of the Talmud taught nearly 200 years ago that God could have created a plant that would grow loaves of bread. Instead He created wheat for us to mill and bake into bread. Why? So that we could be HIs partners in completing the work of creation. — Harold S. Kushner

We cannot live without the knowledge that someone cares about us. — Harold S. Kushner

It is tempting at one level to believe that bad things happen to people (especially other people) because God is a righteous judge who gives them exactly what they deserve. By believing that we keep the world orderly and understandable.... But [this belief] has a number of serious limitations.... It teaches people to blame themselves. It creates guilt when there is no basis for guilt. And most disturbing of all, it does not even fit the facts. — Harold S. Kushner

Seek something outside your nine-to-five job as an additional source of fulfillment and as a way to feel the joy of helping others. — Harold S. Kushner

We don't have to be afraid of dying because it's not really death that scares us. We are afraid of not having lived. — Harold S. Kushner

God is the One who is with us when we have to do something we don't think we are capable of doing. — Harold S. Kushner

That is why we have to make room in our lives for people who may sometimes disappoint or exasperate us. If we hold our friends to a standard of perfection, or if they do that to us, we will end up far lonelier than we want to be. — Harold S. Kushner

Our souls are not hungry for fame, comfort, wealth, or power. Those rewards create almost as many problems as they solve. Our souls are hungry for meaning, for the sense that we have figured out how to live so that our lives matter, so that the world will be at least a little bit different for our having passed through it. — Harold S. Kushner

I said in an interview at the time that God's job is not to make sick people healthy. That's the doctors' job. God's job is to make sick people brave. — Harold S. Kushner

Life Lessons by Harold S. Kushner

1. Rabbi Harold S. Kushner emphasizes the importance of having faith in yourself and in the world, even when life is difficult.
2. He encourages us to find meaning in our lives by being kind and compassionate to others, and to accept that life is unpredictable and sometimes unfair.
3. He teaches us to be resilient and to focus on the things that we can control, such as our attitude and actions, in order to make the most of our lives.