I don't care how intelligent or attractive someone is, if he zaps your energy, he isn't for you. True chemistry is more than intellectual compatibility. Beyond surfaces, you must be intuitively at ease.— Judith Orloff
The most controversy Judith Orloff quotes you will be delighted to read
Spirituality isn't static. It's an evolving optimism that won't let hardship get the best of you.
Certain people give off positive energy, others negative.
It's the quality of someone's being, a measure of the love with which they've led their lives. It also reflects the inner work they've done, their efforts to heal anger, hatred, or self-loathing, which poison us like toxic fumes.
Trust your intuition. It is the best friend you will ever have.
Remove the emotional and physical clutter from your life so you can soar.
Your soul mate can turn into your cell mate if the mutual desire for growth isn't there.
Trying to force things only disturbs your goals.
Forcing will not help. Everything happens in its right time.
Words ride on the energy of tone, its warmth or coldness;
think of tone as the music of how words are expressed. You want this music to be soulful, whether you're giving sweet talk or tough love.
Surrender is a positive, healthy state.
Being a surrendered person does not mean one is beaten down and so hopeless he or she has "given up." It's quite the contrary. Surrender is a state of living in the flow, trusting what is, and being open to serendipity and surprises.
The relationship with yourself is the most important relationship you’ll ever have.
Surrender is a state of living in the flow, trusting what is, and being open to serendipity and surprises.
Creativity is the mother of all energies, nurturer of your most alive self.
It charges up every part of you. When you're plugged in, a spontaneous combustion occurs that 'artists' don't have a monopoly on.
When you have no idea how to surrender and you're tied up in knots, JUST BREATHE!
Whenever your well-being feels at risk around certain people, make a tactful and swift exit.
The art of communicating is to speak with a non judging sensitivity and mean it rather than impulsively verbalizing whatever feelings arise; there's no better way to make a point.
Release all the anxiety that keeps you from moving ahead. Keep breathing it out and letting it go.
Surrendered people enjoy life, relish their personal development, and value their friends. They may have an exceptionally good career and be wealthy, but they are more concerned with meaning and fulfillment. The drive to acquire money and power is a behavior that drains people of their passion and emotional connection to others.
Getting to know the feel of both emotional energies, fear and courage, will enable you to choose courage more consciously. You don't want fear's energy running rampant in your beautiful self, even if you know its root. Whenever you're afraid, invoke courage to transform fear, the formula for freedom.
When encountering emotional vampires, see what you can learn.
It's your choice. You can simply feel tortured, resentful, impotent. Or, as I try to do, ask yourself, “How can this interaction help me grow?
Sustaining silence and circumspection are two behaviors that lead to better, healthier outcomes. They are powerful without dominating.
When you feel stuck in reverse, take a breath and let go.
People who feel the need to push and control tend to keep their feelings bottled up. As a result, they get shut down or remote, and their feelings come out in twisted, unhealthy ways. They become irritable, passive-aggressive, or volatile, for example.
Friends can be the best co-conspirators in charting the unknown.
I crave the sweet surrender of sleep and my dreams' uncensored communication: no tiresome small talk, sucking up to impress, or tiptoeing around charged topics. Dreams are the naked truth; get ready for it.
Adopting the behaviors and habits of surrendered people helps us improve our relationships, feel love and gratitude, get healthier, give up destructive people and behavior patterns, and become more successful and influential in our lives and careers. And that's just the tip of the iceberg as far as benefits go.
Every illness is an opportunity for compassionate revelations.
No matter how well-meaning your intention, doing too much is not always an act of love but of sabotage.
Beyond surfaces, you must be intuitively at ease.
If an organ gets a "dis-ease" you want to care for it like a wounded friend, not an enemy who's turned against you.
Don't try to control what's outside. Be at peace with what's inside.
It's good to be incompatible with your partner sometimes.
It causes your souls to stretch & grow - the point of a soul mate!
Look at your life as your main career and your divine classroom.
Fixating on the outcome or needing to know all the details of an upcoming event, such as a trip, causes people to be upset when things don't go their way, overly focused on the future, and unable to bounce back easily. Inflexible people are susceptible to anger, distress, and depression. Surrendered people go with the flow, shrug it off when an unplanned situation happens, and tend to be happier, more lighthearted, and resilient.
Flow is letting nothing obstruct the breath.
Practice flow through a complete exhale in every way in your being.
Abundance is a state of mind, more than a reflection of wealth.
Surrendered people understand that they can’t always change a situation, especially when the door is shut. They don’t try to force it open. Instead, they pay attention to their own behavior, look at the situation at hand, and find a new, different, and creative way to get beyond the obstacles. They are comfortable with uncertainty.
Another reality is a whisper away.
People who feel the need to push and control tend to keep their feelings bottled up. As a result, they get shut down or remote, and their feelings come out in twisted, unhealthy ways. They become irritable, passive-aggressive, or volatile, for example. Surrendered people make great lovers. They can be spontaneous and playful. They love to feel and express all of their emotions. They look vibrant, healthy, and energetic.
Surrendered people know themselves and are empathetic toward others.
They don't measure themselves by how much they are liked, nor do they compete for attention. When they sit quietly in a room, others always seem to come to them. They feel successful apart from their job or net worth.
Surrender to life today. Don't fight anything. Just enjoy the flow.
Energy never lies. If you work at your right rhythm, you will be more productive trust me.
Energy doesn't lie. Keep sensing it, trusting it, letting it liberate you.
If you want to surrender to creativity, surrender to creation.
You possess an intuitive intelligence so powerful it can help you heal, relieve stress, and find emotional freedom
Stop protesting the hand you've been dealt! Become partners with your life instead of making it an exhausting wrestling match.
Surrender is a positive, healthy state.
Being a surrendered person does not mean one is beaten down and so hopeless he or she has "given up." It's quite the contrary.
Surrendered people make great lovers.
They can be spontaneous and playful. They love to feel and express all of their emotions. They look vibrant, healthy, and energetic.
The most influential person in the room isn't the one who is being a bully, talking loudly, and imposing him- or herself on others. Surrendered people understand that true power comes from being respectful and listening.
Relationships carry the whole universe within them.
They can be everything, nothing, here, then gone. One moment, loving someone makes you shine; the next, it feels like matter and antimatter colliding.
All the Hardships. All the Mistakes. All the Rejections. All the Pain. All the times you Questioned why. All of these things have given Birth to the Wisdom and Strength that will Help you Shine your Light on the World, Even in the darkest of Hours.