It's about how you're like a lighthouse, always searching far into the distance. But the thing you're looking for is usually close to you and always has been. That's why you have to look within yourself to find answers instead of searching beyond.— Susane Colasanti
The most bashful Susane Colasanti quotes that are free to learn and impress others
If a girl starts out all casual with a guy and she doesn't tell him that she wants a relationship, it will never become a relationship. If you give the guy the impression that casual is okay with you, that's all he'll ever want. Be straight with him from the start. If he gets scared and runs away, he wasn't right for you.
The stupid thing about anger is how people hurt you and then you let them keep hurting you by being angry about how they originally hurt you. It’s a vicious cycle.
I can't take it anymore. The waiting. The wanting. Something inside me snaps. I hate myself. I hate that I have to deal with this. I hate my life. And I hate how I can't count on anyone to be completely there when I need them, exactly the way I need them to be.
The rain fluctuates between drizzle and torrential.
It messes with your mind. It makes you think things will always be like this, never getting better, always letting you down right when you though the worst was over.
Physical attraction that strong is addictive.
And knowing that kind of magic isn’t just a fantasy makes me want to find it again. But what about being with someone who makes me a better person? What about sharing my life with someone who adores me as much as I adore him, whom I can always count on, who helps me find my way when I’m lost?
It’s unbelievable how you can affect someone else so deeply and never know.
If you see someone being bullied, make it stop. Why is that so hard for us to do?
Do you want to be with Dave for the rest of your life?” Then he rips off a piece of paper and picks up the smallest charcoal stick from my set. He writes something. He passes it over to me. It says: Time will tell. “And while you’re waiting,” he says, “don’t settle for anything less than what you really want.
But if your boyfriend, out of nowhere and with no advance warning whatsoever, dumps you for no apparent reason, is it really about you? Or is it all him?
My thing is that I'm in love with love.
Actually, I'm in love with the possibility of true love. Which could be considered a major problem.
Love isn't logical, or even our choice.
Love chooses us. Sometimes things have to get worse before they get better.
We're all sinking in the same boat here.
We're all bored and desperate and waiting for something to happen. Waiting for life to get better. Waiting for things to change. Waiting for that one person to finally notice us. We're all waiting. But we also need to realize that we all have the power to make those changes for ourselves.
Even in a bad situation, there's always a positive side. Even if you can't see it yet.
Never give up on your dreams. No matter how many people say it’s impossible, no matter how difficult your journey is, you can create your ideal life. Your heart’s desires can become reality. Make things better now by taking steps every day to get closer to the life you want. And never, ever give up.
I have to get my life back on track. Order as an antidote to chaos. Calm after the storm.
We can’t help who we love. Love isn’t logical, or even our choice. Love chooses us.
Maybe it's just hart to see what's right in front of you while you're frantically searching for it.
School would be way more tolerable if everyone wasn’t so afraid to be who they really are. And if everyone else would let them.
Because my life isn't going to wait around while I figure out how to make it work.
Girls with the beauty-and-brains thing going on are the most intimidating girls in the world.
We’re never gonna understand women.
They’re way too complex. You’ve got too many variables to consider. PMS, bad hair days, miscellaneous mood swings . . . there’s no way to tell what’s causing their attitude. - Mike
We’re products of our choices.
It is easier with the right person. A good test of a relationship is how well you both deal with challenges. If one person is more invested, it shows. If you're with the wrong person, it feels like too much work. But if you're unhappy more than you're happy, it's not the right relationship for you.
FACTS Fact #1 Mean people suck. Fact #2 Bad things happen to good people. Fact #3 Good doesn’t always prevail over evil.
That's the cool thing about having a best friend.
They know what your pain feels like already, so you don't have to explain it.
I wish emotional bruises healed like physical ones.
I want deeper connections with the people around me.
I need to reach out more. Because not everyone leaves. Sometimes if you reach out, the person you’re trying to reach will be right there waiting.
My hair is so scary that if you saw it walking down the street, you'd cross to the other side. This humidity is not helping. It's just an excuse for my hair to let its frizz flag fly.
When your heart is shattered into a million pieces, all you can do is try to keep holding on. You breathe. You try to fall asleep. You try to not think about him.
It's weird how time can change something you thought would always stay the same.
Love is never guaranteed. Love is a risk we take because we hope it will make us happy.
Following your heart means allowing the possibility of finding true love to be stronger than the fear of rejection.
I'm thinking that it might actually be possible for things to work out sometimes. Definitely not everything and maybe not the way you imagined. But sometimes, when you least expected it, life surprises you.
I can’t tell how much of our connection is because of the things we still have in common or the one thing that bonds us for life. But no matter what happens, I know I can totally count on Erin for anything. And she knows I’d do anything for her.
The huge problems we deal with every day are actually really small.
We’re so focused on what bothers us that we don’t even try to see our lives from a clearer perspective.
Because I still love him. You can't just turn love off. You still feel it.
He has to wair for another load of laundry to get done.
So I wait with him. I lean back against the couch, sitting really low the way I like. I scrunch over and put my head on his shoulder. We sit like that for a long time. Watching other people's laundry dry. <3
Somewhere underneath it all, I know he doesn't deserve to take up space in my brain.
You can overcome your fears, you cange change, you can make life into what you've always wanted it to be. Maybe not tomorrow, but soon. So hang in.
Rien ne va arrêter ma quête pour te trouver" No one will stop my quest to find you.
All I can do is hope.
I deserve to be happy. I'm sad it took me so long to get that. But I get it now.
But you can't get to the place you most want to be without taking a chance.
Standing in the line at the food court, I try to be myself.
But I forget how I usually stand when I'm myself.
Just because a person chooses to express themselves in an extreme way doesn't mean they have an extreme personality.
but then you realize that this ‘whole package’ everyone’s looking for is unattainable. No one can be everything you want them to be.
Who remembers everything about somebody?
That's the tricky thing about being bonded to someone for life.
Blake and his dad are bonded like I'm bonded with Erin. We're irrevocably tied together by history, a history that can never be erased. Even if you want to deny it, even it you want to pretend it never existed, it will always be a part of you. It will always, in some way, define who you are.
Everyone at his table laughs. They know I can hear them. They just don't care.