109+ Jen Kirkman Quotes On Culture, Relationships And Louis Ck

Jen Kirkman is an American stand-up comedian, writer, and actress. She is best known for her appearances on Chelsea Lately and her two Netflix comedy specials, I'm Gonna Die Alone (And I Feel Fine) and Just Keep Livin'?. She is also the author of the New York Times best-selling book I Can Barely Take Care of Myself: Tales From a Happy Life Without Kids. Following is our collection on famous quotes by Jen Kirkman on love, culture, life.

Top 10 Jen Kirkman Quotes

1. People said to me, "You know, when you record a special, you're going to regret it. The one thing you'll regret because you're a comic is you'll think of better tags."
2. I just remember a creepy sex-ed teacher putting a banana on a condom and then saying, "It goes in the girl if she gets all juicy." We didn't even believe it. We were like, "Well, that's weird."
3. I am just really focused in on what I love doing, but I would be a moron to not take some of my natural talent - I'm not saying I'm that talented, but I have enough acting and writing talent to go.
4. Instead of saving for someone else's college education, I'm currently saving for a luxury retirement community replete with golf carts and handsome young male nurses who love butterscotch.
5. Its almost Thanksgiving! A day when you get to hear your extended family use racial slurs for groups are not taking away their jobs.
6. I'm still hibernating so I get really frustrated with other people's goals and just stop.
7. I'm just going to go to schools and give inspirational speeches about our bodies. I'll just wear flowing dresses and talk way quieter than I can.
8. I don't even think people really understand how you can get pregnant or when you get pregnant. I still have questions about that.
9. I'm wired to be neurotic and loud and high-strung.
10. I just feel like estrogen is bad hormones, and seen as shameful.

Jen Kirkman Short Quotes

• I don't know. Maybe [sex-ed] is my new calling?
• I'm really big on hormones.
• I don't have anything to do all year. I'm not on tour until September.
• I'm the queen of outside speakers.
• I'm not anxious, I'm high-strung. I just decided that's the difference for me.
• Everyone traveling alone is just on their phones the whole time.
• I know everyone says they go to yoga, but I actually really go. I notice that helps me so much.
• I stay on [Twitter] because I deserve to.
• Any expectation is what pain is.
• If I could make crazy money just doing stand-up, that's what I would do.

Jen Kirkman Quotes About Life

I don't think people are really breaking ground and getting new fans or anything. So, I just use it more in my personal life but obviously I'm in a business where people think that Twitter matters so I'll be like, "Yes, I will tweet out this show." But it is something that me, the human, uses. — Jen Kirkman

I think Twitter is kind of boring, to be honest. To me, it's not even real life. — Jen Kirkman

I just try to live a moderate life of always checking and trying to be the best person I can be and I'm in therapy and am always working on something. — Jen Kirkman

I'm really ambitious about is being a really good comic and doing it for the rest of my life and getting really big. Not really famous because I want fame or attention, just a little freedom. So, that's where I'm ambitious. — Jen Kirkman

I am never home, and it's hard to keep up with things that are good for you to have in life like relationships, whether they be romantic or friendship. I have to work twice as hard to make sure I don't just check out. That's what I mean by vulnerability. — Jen Kirkman

Whatever my life looks like, I want it to be real and big and full. I want when, if I get hit by a car, I want to know that I have deep and real friendships, people to visit me in the hospital. — Jen Kirkman

I realized that even I have weird intimacy issues with humans - like, I need my friendships to get deeper, I need to be locked in, I need to remember people's names. I know this sounds really stupid, but I just need to be more present in my life. — Jen Kirkman

Jen Kirkman Famous Quotes And Sayings

There have been many times in my life where I got opportunities that I never thought would be the things that I needed, so I'm always saying, "I want to do this but whatever the universe thinks is right, I'm open." Because otherwise it causes me so much pain if I don't get what I want. It's my least favorite thing. — Jen Kirkman

I'm tired of explaining to Hollywood that people would laugh at me, because I go around America making them laugh every week. Nobody would be offended, nobody would think my leather pants are too controversial. — Jen Kirkman

My brain does like the idea of hosting a late-night show. My brain does like the idea of maybe having a show about me. So, I often pitch ideas and work on scripts and do that just because I may not be right about how I feel, so why not just do this, and if it happens and I got my own show, well maybe I would really end up falling in love with it. — Jen Kirkman

Admittedly, the masturbation story is just a "Hey, this is one of my best-of's, I'll throw it in the special." But the grandmother stuff, really, I feel like is part of the theme and part of the best way to end the story that I'm telling with the special. — Jen Kirkman

We've seen a kind of Donald Trump supporter on steroids, like the hate-crime people. Those people, I don't want to see, like anyone violent or carrying a gun or anything like that. But I won't know if they disagree with me unless they decide to heckle. — Jen Kirkman

[The first] week [of the year] is great because my special is coming out but it's also my least favorite week because everyone else is on hyperdrive. They're like, "Let's do it! We're doing our goals!" Everyone is bothering me and there's so much hyper-intensity going on and I'm like, "It's winter, you guys. It's hibernating time." — Jen Kirkman

My rule is if one person says it, a thousand people want to say it. That goes for compliments too. I try to balance it out in my head. — Jen Kirkman

I finally understand that it’s okay to be a little afraid of things but that obsessing over them does not mean you have any more control over what you fear. — Jen Kirkman

I think I say things nicely and my whole goal is to be understood and that includes by people who don't understand me. — Jen Kirkman

What I found out about myself was I am not someone who doesn't believe in marriage. — Jen Kirkman

I did buy a new piece of furniture so it's like, "Oh, that's something new." But generally my goals are made in the fall. — Jen Kirkman

I don't do jokes about elections so that's probably why it went okay for me, except for the crazy people that are hate-crime people. — Jen Kirkman

I always try to be open to whatever the universe wants from me. — Jen Kirkman

I have a new rule where I only follow fashion people on Instagram. — Jen Kirkman

[Congress] can just make [Mitt] Romney president. And we'd be like, "All right, fine." — Jen Kirkman

I don't like news channels so I have six websites that I check and I get the daily update. — Jen Kirkman

My nana was always a widow as long as I was alive; my grandfather died before I was born. All the women on my street - there were four houses in a row with all old women who lived alone who were widowed. They all had kids, but they were all widowed. My mom didn't put me in preschool; I didn't know that was a thing. I just hung out with these women all day. — Jen Kirkman

Let's say I was like, "I'm going to write a book this year," which I'm not. Let's just say that was it. Then it would be for the joy of writing it. It wouldn't be like, "And it's going to be No. 1 and I'm going to get rich and go on a book tour and own a library." I don't know the difference between doing what I normally do and making a resolution. And if it doesn't happen, then I'm going to be miserable. — Jen Kirkman

It's much easier to make jokes about not having kids. — Jen Kirkman

I really will never understand pushing back on comedians who are like, "I'm like a politician campaigning and shaking hands with these people. They're going to be okay." — Jen Kirkman

I realized I need a certain kind of chemistry and a certain kind of look to be into someone, and like 1 percent of the population has it. — Jen Kirkman

[Twitter] is not totally where I go anymore to sell myself as a concept, as a comedian, because it moves too fast. — Jen Kirkman

For me, making any kind of resolution or saying, "I'm doing this!" can only cause pain, to get very deep. — Jen Kirkman

[Twitter] certainly doesn't hurt me. I'm not in any pain over any of the things I see. I'm just more disappointed. — Jen Kirkman

[People] might turn into [Donald] Trump supporters who think, "Hey, I get what women are saying." So any chance I get to have people listen that should hear me is good. — Jen Kirkman

I try to minimize the noise, and I don't use Facebook except for my fan page, and I don't look at anything. It's getting a lot easier. — Jen Kirkman

I stay on [Twitter] as Jen Kirkman, a person. It's just a way for me to connect with what I know and read everything and catch all areas. — Jen Kirkman

I want to be one of those cool people that's like, "What is Twitter?" and just be totally blind to it. — Jen Kirkman

You never know anymore if you'll see something you don't want to see, if you're jealous of something, if you're going through a breakup and you see something, so I just don't even look at those things any more [ in Instagram]. — Jen Kirkman

Testosterone makes you completely out of control, but that's okay. — Jen Kirkman

I mean, I can't say that I've had many deep thoughts because I traveled alone, but it's good to be with myself in the quiet. — Jen Kirkman

I find it actually the height of romance to legally bind yourself to someone because you're really taking care of someone, and letting them take care of you. I actually have no cynicism about that. — Jen Kirkman

I'm not like Woody Allen like, "Oh my god what's going to happen? Ooh Ooh Oohhh." I'm just high-strung. So I do need to do a lot of stuff. — Jen Kirkman

I want to re-visit everything. We're people and we're so different. I think it would just be nice if it wasn't just like, "Eww, women." That would be a big thing for me. — Jen Kirkman

I don't want to have kids and so I am not going to have kids. People who want kids are going to have kids. I'm doing what I want to do and people who want kids are doing what they want to do. What about this scenario makes me selfish? — Jen Kirkman

I have no interest in saying "This is who I am! This is what I'm like!" — Jen Kirkman

I thought that's what happened to women: You live alone when you're old. — Jen Kirkman

I'd also talk about the period and of course all the different gender things that people might feel that they are. I'd be a terrible teacher because of what I don't know about that. — Jen Kirkman

I'll take anyone I can get that will pay money to see me. And if there's more of me in the world, people who think they're good people and comedians who have a good message or whatever, then that's great. If there's some kind of balance there that's good. — Jen Kirkman

A lot of times that I'm single is not for a lack of anyone being interested; it's me. — Jen Kirkman

There's something grand and revolutionary still about [women] traveling alone. There are some parts of the world where you can't. — Jen Kirkman

I think March and fall are natural seasons for me to feel invigorated. — Jen Kirkman

My curriculum would be the whole year. It would be really slow and it would be about human anatomy. I would teach people about women's bodies so they understand what Planned Parenthood is for. — Jen Kirkman

I had no idea that marriage was only supposed to be between two people who wanted to get between the sheets and make more people. What ever happened to marrying for love— or to get on your partner’s health insurance policy, or for presents? No one was going to buy two people in their thirties a four-slice toaster if we just continued to live in sin. — Jen Kirkman

I wonder if that's the difference between fathers and mothers. I'm friends with people who have kids that are like 5 and under, and they're still in that intense mother-bonding phase. It might just be that. Because the dads haven't changed. — Jen Kirkman

My joke is a picture of David Bowie on his balcony in the '70s in a suit in Paris, and unless that's you, I'm not interested. There are very few aesthetic types that I have, and people who look like that are not always necessarily good for me. — Jen Kirkman

Actually, my friendships are changing because my friends have kids, so that's a new aspect to the material. Not just that I don't want to have kids, it's that I'm having a hard time relating to people I know. — Jen Kirkman

[Yoga] never calms me. Ever. But it certainly helps me prevent something. — Jen Kirkman

I think that, for me, my favorite thing to do is perform standup onstage. Everything else I do is for the exposure to do more stand-up onstage, and for the money, and for the health insurance. — Jen Kirkman

I log out of Twitter on my computer so I have to log in and then I log back out. — Jen Kirkman

They asked us to draw pictures of what we thought men and women look like naked and so I was like, "Get away, I'm doing my weird homework, drawing a naked man and woman." And I can't even draw. That's all I remember. I have no memory. — Jen Kirkman

Sometimes I look [ on trolls on Twitter], but even one ignorant comment can make me go, "Oh god." — Jen Kirkman

It's like, "Women can't handle things because they're always sad. That's estrogen." Men brag about testosterone, which makes them completely out of control too. On the other end of things, it's like, "Oh it was just testosterone. He got in a bar fight." Why is that better than crying at work? — Jen Kirkman

My birthday is in August - right before September, so I have that "back to school" feeling ingrained in me so that time of year is when I usually do personal goals or resolutions. — Jen Kirkman

I have no choice sometimes, but there's something about being alone. When I'm alone I might not speak for 24 hours, but you're totally seeing things. It's a pretty cool experience. — Jen Kirkman

Not that that's my goal, but when you're very wealthy and very famous, you can have a lot more decisions in what you do. You have a lot more opportunity. You can maybe even not work for a few years. It puts you in a great position to make some decisions. You're not always taking every job that comes and that kind of thing. — Jen Kirkman

It [sex-ed] was such a slow rollout for me. I just didn't know what the hell was happening. — Jen Kirkman

That's the same thing that is making me like George W. Bush. "He was nice. I know he was nice. He didn't know what he was doing but he was nice." — Jen Kirkman

I put my filter on, though, and I only see things people I follow [on Twitter] write now. So, I don't even know anymore [ trolls]. — Jen Kirkman

I used to make albums because I wasn't touring, and so I thought, "This is the best way for people to find out about me. — Jen Kirkman

I think people with anxiety do different things during different years, and for me, I waded through my anxiety during the last two years with men, and flirting, and dating, and this thing and that thing, and so that's going to stop, and that has stopped. — Jen Kirkman

I have some pretty wonderful friendships, so that's been really good for me. In the past year, I've really worked on that. I think when I was married, I let my friendships go. I think people thought, "Oh, because she's married now, she's so happy all the time." But I really was just isolated in my house. — Jen Kirkman

When you travel, people might not have the same ideas about what is interesting. I'm not really good at compromising when I travel. — Jen Kirkman

I don't understand why every single person in Congress isn't standing up and going, "He [Donald Trump] is in bed with Russia." And then they could just lock their arms and not let him in. — Jen Kirkman

You teach someone about fallopian tubes in grade school, and you revisit it again in seventh grade for a better understanding of that stuff. I think it's never-ending. I don't know why it isn't all the time. — Jen Kirkman

Have you ever seen the stereotype of the angry yoga teacher? There are some people that are at an 11 and yoga takes them down to a nine. That's me. — Jen Kirkman

The whole notion that I don't appeal to the demographic - all my fans are young men. Someone asked me the other day, "So are your shows just full of 40-year-old single women?" I'm like, "I would be rich if that were true." — Jen Kirkman

Let me say this. [Donald] Trump is the only person that has control over what Trump does. Maybe his supporters support him but they don't support every single thing about him. Maybe they are misguided about what it means to be friends with Russia. Maybe they come to my show and they never thought about sexism in the way that I talk about it in a joke. — Jen Kirkman

I'm sure kids had masturbated by sixth grade. I had for sure. — Jen Kirkman

Even if it's L.A. and it's warmer, we're not supposed to be revving up right now. I don't like everyone's energy around [winter] time of year. — Jen Kirkman

I don't run around feeling infused with positivity, but I'll have to be taking my last breath before I'll admit I'm dying. So I'm either optimistic or in denial. — Jen Kirkman

I don't have that addictive, "What's going on?" feeling anymore, thank god. — Jen Kirkman

I don't have any jokes about my divorce or my ex-husband, who is a lovely person. It really is about how I was an idiot trying to push this guy to get married when I wasn't even sure if I wanted to. — Jen Kirkman

In terms of what happened to Amy [Schumer], if that happened to me I would be like, "Yes, please leave." But I toured a lot. I started as an opening feature act touring a lot during the [George W.] Bush years, like around 2007. I was touring during the [Barack] Obama election - the first one with [Sarah] Palin and [John] McCain - and I talked to crowds about that and they were always split down the middle. — Jen Kirkman

God, there's teaching biology and teaching sexuality, and it's two separate things. They mix it and make it more of a morality thing where it's like, "A man and woman have a baby." — Jen Kirkman

Not everyone is there to get an abortion. Your body is like a car that has needs and women's bodies constantly need a level of care that men don't. — Jen Kirkman

I actually really do meditation and then I spend my morning reading. — Jen Kirkman

If, for some reason, everyone knew who I was without me having to have my own TV show, that's what I would do. That way, I could do less shows a year. — Jen Kirkman

My mother was like, "What did they teach you?", and I had never talked about that [sex-ed] so I freaked out. — Jen Kirkman

At first, there was a separation of clubs and sketch comedy. Now there's all kinds of comedy, making us one big happy family. — Jen Kirkman

I don't like to joke about dating. — Jen Kirkman

I don't know if I don't believe in monogamy. I think I do believe in it depending on the person or situation or something. — Jen Kirkman

Life Lessons by Jen Kirkman

1. Jen Kirkman teaches us to be confident in ourselves and to embrace our own unique sense of humor. She encourages us to be open to different perspectives and to always challenge our own beliefs.
2. Through her comedy, she encourages us to be honest and vulnerable, to take risks and to not be afraid of failure.
3. She also emphasizes the importance of self-care and encourages us to take time for ourselves and to focus on our own wellbeing.