Judging others makes us blind, whereas love is illuminating. By judging others we blind ourselves to our own evil and to the grace which others are just as entitled to as we are.— Dietrich Bonhoeffer
Revealing Judging Others quotations
How you make others feel about themselves says a lot about you.
I want to love you without clutching, appreciate you without judging, join you without invading, invite you without demanding, leave you without guilt, criticize you without blaming, and help you without insulting. If I can have the same from you, then we can truly meet and enrich each other.
We should be rigorous in judging ourselves and gracious in judging others.
Thinking is difficult, that's why most people judge.
October 6, 1774 I met those of our society who had votes in the ensuing election, and advised them 1. To vote, without fee or reward, for the person they judged most worthy 2. To speak no evil of the person they voted against, and 3. To take care their spirits were not sharpened against those that voted on the other side.
Our relationship with each other is the criterion the world uses to judge whether our message is truthful - Christian community is the final apologetic.
Care less about what other people think because at the end of the day, everyone is so worried about themselves & how they are coming across that nobody is actually judging as much as y'all think they are.
Every time you judge someone else, you reveal an unhealed part of yourself.
Our maturity will be judged by how well we are able to agree to disagree and yet continue to love one another, to care for one another, and cherish one another and seek the greater good of the other.
When it comes to hating, gossiping, ignoring, ridiculing, holding grudges, or wanting to cause harm, please apply the following: Stop it!
You must show no mercy...nor have any belief whatsoever in how others judge you...for your greatness will silence them all.
Don't compare your life to others. There's no comparison between the sun and the moon. They shine when it's their time.
The greatest prison people live in is the fear of what other people think.
Everyone seems to have a clear idea of how other people should lead their lives, but none about his or her own.
Criticism of others is thus an oblique form of self-commendation.
We think we make the picture hang straight on our wall by telling our neighbors that all his pictures are crooked.
Do not judge my story by the chapter you walked in on.
We judge ourselves by what we feel capable of doing, while others judge us by what we have already done.
A heart is not judged by how much you love; but by how much you are loved by others.
Love others as you would love yourself, judge others as you would judge yourself, cherish others as you would cherish yourself. When you wish for others as you wish for yourself and when you protect others as you would protect yourself, that's when you can say it's true love.
A true leader has the confidence to stand alone, the courage to make tough decisions, and the compassion to listen to the needs of others.
Don’t judge yourself by others’ standards…have your own.
And don’t get caught up into the trap of changing yourself to fit the world. The world has to change to fit you. And if you stick to your principles, values and morals long enough, it will.
The secret of attraction is to love yourself.
Attractive people judge neither themselves nor others. They are open to gestures of love. They think about love, and express their love in every action. They know that love is not a mere sentiment, but the ultimate truth at the heart of the universe.
Don't judge me. You wanna judge me, put on a black gown and get a gavel. Get in line with the rest of them that's about to judge me. I got court dates every other month. It's me against the world - that's how I feel.
Be brave enough to live the life of your dreams according to your vision and and purpose instead of the expectations and opinions of others.
We're a new generation of people. We need to be happy. We need to love each other. We need to accept each other for who we are and stop judging each other. Live life and love. Stop judging just to keep yourself secure. Look deeper. There's always something deeper than what it is.
We can never judge the lives of others, because each person knows only their own pain and renunciation. It's one thing to feel that you are on the right path, but it's another to think that yours is the only path.
The common eye sees only the outside of things, and judges by that, but the seeing eye pierces through and reads the heart and the soul, finding there capacities which the outside didn't indicate or promise, and which the other kind of eye couldn't detect.
Some people feel the rain, others just get wet.
It's really important that we stop body shaming people online and on social media. The rude comments under pictures, comparing women in "who looks better" posts - all that does is force us to judge each other. It only sets us back and women, now more than ever, need to empower each other.
Do not judge others. Be your own judge and you will be truly happy. If you will try to judge others, you are likely to burn your fingers.
I never was an Abolitionest, not even what could be called anti slavery, but I try to judge farely and honestly and it become patent to my mind early in the rebellion that the North and South could never live at peace with each other except as one nation, and that without Slavery.
It's better to cry than to be angry; because anger hurts others, while tears flow silently through the soul and cleanses the heart.
When to give grace? I'd rather stand before God knowing I loved others too much rather than regretting that I judged too harshly.
Imperfect men have no right to judge other imperfect men.
Dislike in yourself what you dislike in others.
Stress, anxiety, and depression are caused when we are living to please others.
At the time, when you're being dissected and judged it's pretty brutal, but in hindsight it's great and - it sounds cliched - you do come out the other side better and stronger.
We judge ourselves by our intentions. And others by their actions.
I cannot accept your canon that we are to judge Pope and King unlike other men, with a favorable presumption that they do no wrong. If there is any presumption, it is the other way against holders of power...power tends to corrupt and absolute power corrupts absolutely.
Knowing others is intelligence, knowing yourself is true wisdom.
If two friends ask you to judge a dispute, don't accept, because you will lose one friend; on the other hand, if two strangers come with the same request, accept because you will gain one friend.
I had to learn to forgive myself, not to judge, but to learn from the past.
They showed me how vital it is to accept, be truthful, and love myself. So I could do the same with others.
Most people know no other way of judging men's worth but by the vogue they are in, or the fortunes they have met with.
I call upon my God to judge me, he knows that I love my friends and above all others my wife and children, the, oppinion of the world to contrary notwithstanding.
We've spent so much time judging what other people created that we've created very, very little of our own.