I want to love you without clutching, appreciate you without judging, join you without invading, invite you without demanding, leave you without guilt, criticize you without blaming, and help you without insulting. If I can have the same from you, then we can truly meet and enrich each other.— Virginia Satir
Passioned Blaming Others quotations
How you make others feel about themselves says a lot about you.
If you can keep your wits about you while all others are losing theirs, and blaming you. The world will be yours and everything in it, what's more, you'll be a man, my son.
When you blame others, you give up your power to change.
Don't compare your life to others. There's no comparison between the sun and the moon. They shine when it's their time.
If the praise of others elates me and their blame depresses me;
if I cannot rest under misunderstandin g without defending myself; if I love to be loved more than to love, to be served more than to serve, then I know nothing of Calvary love.
If you make it a habit not to blame others, you will feel the growth of the ability to love in your soul, and you will see the growth of goodness in your life.
Me, I don’t want any children, I don’t want responsibility.
I am gay, I smoke weed and I do exactly what I want in my life because of my talent. I represent an ideal which others have had to let go and they blame me for that. Especially men.
A true leader has the confidence to stand alone, the courage to make tough decisions, and the compassion to listen to the needs of others.
Avoid doing what you would blame others for doing.
Take responsibility for your last bad decision, and then let it go.
Don't blame others or make excuses for yourself.
You may succeed in making another feel guilty about something by blaming him, but you won't succeed in changing whatever it is about you that is making you unhappy.
Be brave enough to live the life of your dreams according to your vision and and purpose instead of the expectations and opinions of others.
I have nothing in common with lazy people who blame others for their lack of success.
You fail all the time, but you aren't a failure until you start blaming someone else.
Whoever wishes to blame or attack me is entitled to do so.
I regret I didn't have enough experience to totally control the movement. On the other hand, with our constant struggle, this had to be done together with others in the communist world to stop Kampuchea becoming Vietnamese.
Some people feel the rain, others just get wet.
Inside a religious body you get sects and hierarchies, inside an information network you get bazaars and cathedrals, it is the same, call them what you like. They survive by pointing the finger of blame at each other.
Goals live on the other side of obstacles and challenges.
Be relentless in pursuit of those goals, especially in the face of obstacles. Along the way, make no excuses and place no blame.
The superior man blames himself. The inferior man blames others.
It's better to cry than to be angry; because anger hurts others, while tears flow silently through the soul and cleanses the heart.
Never blame another person for your personal choices - you are still the one who must live out the consequences of your choices.
You will never become who you want to be if you keep blaming everyone else for who you are now.
Informed decision-making comes from a long tradition of guessing and then blaming others for inadequate results.
Stress, anxiety, and depression are caused when we are living to please others.
If you continue to blame other people for “making” you feel guilty, they still have power over you, and you are saying that you will only feel good when they stop doing that. You are giving them control over your life. Stop blaming other people.
We didn't intend to hurt each other, and we don't have time to do so.
Life is too short to blame others. It's now the past. I hope that everybody will do well in the long run.
Fair play is primarily not blaming others for anything that is wrong with us.
Knowing others is intelligence, knowing yourself is true wisdom.
Too often in life, something happens and we blame other people for us not being happy or satisfied or fulfilled. So the point is, we all have choices, and we make the choice to accept people or situations or to not accept situations.
How can you blame others for disrespecting you when you think of yourself as unworthy of respect?
As long as you try your best, you are never a failure. That is, unless you blame others.
Self-control is strength. Calmness is mastery. You have to get to a point where your mood doesn't shift based on the insignificant actions of someone else. Don't allow others to control the direction of your life. Don't allow your emotions to overpower your intelligence.
When you blame and criticize others, you are avoiding some truth about yourself.
By blaming others, we fail to find the real solutions to our problems and we do not carry out our own responsibilities.
If there is someone in need whom you wish to help, whether the initiative came from him or from you, do no more than he expects of you, not what you might personally wish to do. If you overstep the mark, you will not deserve thanks, but blame from him and others and you will attract hostility, not friendship.
Follow your heart, listen to your inner voice, stop caring about what others think.
There's not a chance we'll reach our full potential until we stop blaming each other and start practicing personal accountability.
The reason people blame things on previous generations is that there's only one other choice.
Some praise me, some blame me. I go the other way.
If you are more fortunate than others, it is better to build a longer table than a taller fence.
Failure is an opportunity. If you blame someone else, there is no end to the blame. Therefore the Master fulfills her own obligations and corrects her own mistakes. She does what she needs to do and demands nothing of others.
I used to blame my problems on other people.
But my moment of clarity, if you want to call it that, came when I was looking in the mirror one day and just burst into tears. It wasn't just that I looked bad, it was that I knew my problem was me.
When you face discouragement, you can do one of two things, and the one you choose will color your perspective. You can look at others to place the blame, or you can look at yourself to discover your opportunities. The choice is yours.
We can struggle with what is. We can judge and blame others or ourselves. Or we can accept what cannot be changed. Peace comes from an honorable and open heart accepting what is true. Do we want to remain stuck? Or to release the fearful sense of self and rest kindly where we are?
We will not spend four years blaming others, we will take responsibility.