143 Marriage Wisdom Quotes

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Famous Marriage Wisdom Quotes

In marriage do thou be wise: prefer the person before money, virtue before beauty, the mind before the body; then thou hast a wife, a friend, a companion, a second self. — William Penn

Married life teaches one invaluable lesson: to think of things far enough ahead not to say them. — Jefferson Machamer

Marriage is the triumph of imagination over intelligence. Second marriage is the triumph of hope over experience. — Oscar Wilde

If you are wise, look after your house; love your wife without alloy. — Egyptian Proverbs

Marriage is three parts love and seven parts forgiveness of sins. — Lao Tzu

Marriage is an adventure, like going to war. — G. K. Chesterton

A successful marriage requires commitment to teamwork. — Gad Saad

Marriage may be the closest thing to Heaven or Hell any of us will know on this earth. — Edwin Louis Cole

Marriage is not a noun; it's a verb. It isn't something you get. It's something you do. It's the way you love your partner every day. — Barbara De Angelis

a good marriage is that in which each appoints the other guardian of his solitude — Rainer Maria Rilke

Marriage is not just spiritual communion, it is also remembering to take out the trash. — Joyce Brothers

The secret of a successful marriage is not to be at home too much. - Colin Chapman

The secret of a successful marriage is not to be at home too much. — Colin Chapman

The best romance is inside marriage; the finest love stories come after the wedding, not before. — Irving Stone

Marriage is not a ritual or an end. It is a long, intricate, intimate dance together and nothing matters more than your own sense of balance and your choice of partner. — Amy Bloom

A happy marriage is a new beginning of life, a new starting point for happiness and usefulness. — Arthur Penrhyn Stanley

Marriage Advice Quotes

Before marriage, a man declares that he would lay down his life to serve you; after marriage, he won't even lay down his newspaper to talk to you. — Helen Rowland

Never advise anyone to go to war or to marry. — Danish Proverbs

The husband who wants a happy marriage should learn to keep his mouth shut and his checkbook open. — Groucho Marx

Marriage wisdom quote It hurts because it matters.
It hurts because it matters.

I married Miss Right. I just didn't know her first name was Always — Red Skelton

A young man should not marry yet, an old man not at all — Greek Proverbs

Love is a vessel that contains both security and adventure, and commitment offers one of the great luxuries of life: time. Marriage is not the end of romance, it is the beginning. — Esther Perel

Marriage wisdom quote Be not afraid of going slowly, Be afraid of standing still.
Be not afraid of going slowly, Be afraid of standing still.

God speaks with authority on every subject including marriage and His advice trumps Oprah's every time. — Kirk Cameron

Marriage is really tough because you have to deal with feelings... and lawyers. — Richard Pryor

Marriage is like a hot bath; once you get used to it, it ain't so hot. — Minnie Pearl

Marriage is the only war in which you sleep with the enemy. — Francois de la Rochefoucauld

Marriage Life Quotes

When you love someone, you love the person as they are, and not as you'd like them to be. — Leo Tolstoy

We’re all a little weird. And life is a little weird. And when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall into mutually satisfying weirdness — and call it love — true love. — Robert Fulghum

Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage. — Lao Tzu

A happy marriage is the union of two good forgivers. - Ruth Graham

A happy marriage is the union of two good forgivers. — Ruth Graham

A loving relationship is one in which the loved one is free to be himself -- to laugh with me, but never at me; to cry with me, but never because of me; to love life, to love himself, to love being loved. Such a relationship is based upon freedom and can never grow in a jealous heart — Leo Buscaglia

The most precious gift we can offer anyone is our attention. When mindfulness embraces those we love, they will bloom like flowers. — Nhat Hanh

Marriage wisdom quote How you make others feel about themselves says a lot about you.
How you make others feel about themselves says a lot about you.

Keep love in your heart. A life without it is like a sunless garden when the flowers are dead. The consciousness of loving and being loved brings a warmth and a richness to life that nothing else can bring. — Oscar Wilde

Years of love have been forgot, In the hatred of a minute. - Edgar Allan Poe

Years of love have been forgot, In the hatred of a minute. — Edgar Allan Poe

And let the winds of the heavens dance between you. - Kahlil Gibran

And let the winds of the heavens dance between you. — Kahlil Gibran

And so, being young and dipt in folly, I fell in love with melancholy. - Edgar Allan Poe

And so, being young and dipt in folly, I fell in love with melancholy. — Edgar Allan Poe

Marriage Humor Quotes

I came from a big family. As a matter of fact, I never got to sleep alone until I was married. — Lewis Grizzard

Men marry women with the hope they will never change. Women marry men with the hope they will change. Invariably they are both disappointed. — Albert Einstein

God created sex. Priests created marriage. - Voltaire

God created sex. Priests created marriage. — Voltaire

Marriage wisdom quote A ship in harbour is safe but thats not what ships are for.
A ship in harbour is safe but thats not what ships are for.

You can't stay mad at somebody who makes you laugh. — Jay Leno

Married men live longer than single men. But married men are a lot more willing to die. — Johnny Carson

All marriages are same sex marriages. You get married and every night, it's the same sex. — Bill Maher

Marriage wisdom quote Life is like a piano, the white keys represent happiness and the black shows sadness, but as you go
Life is like a piano, the white keys represent happiness and the black shows sadness, but as you go through life's journey, remember that the black keys also makes music.

Before marriage, a man will lie awake thinking about something you said; after marriage , he'll fall asleep before you finish saying it. — Helen Rowland

Every man should marry. After all, happiness is not the only thing in life. — Stephen Hawking

I asked my wife where she wanted to go for our anniversary. 'Somewhere I haven't been in a long time!' she said. So I suggested the kitchen. — Red Skelton

Marriage is the chief cause of divorce. — Groucho Marx

Healthy Marriage Quotes

I feel that we can't educate children who are not healthy, and we can't keep them healthy if they're not educated. There has to be a marriage between health and education. You can't learn if your mind is full of unhealthy images from daily life and confusion about right and wrong. — Joycelyn Elders

Love is the great miracle cure. Loving ourselves works miracles in our lives. — Louise Hay

Marriage is a public good, not just a private relationship. We have a public stake in healthy marriages and two-parent families. Our society suffers with the collapse of the relationship of the couple who brings a child into the world. — William J Doherty

Marriage wisdom quote Don't let your happiness depend on something you may lose.
Don't let your happiness depend on something you may lose.

It is my view that our society can be no more stable than the foundation of individual family units upon which it rests. Our government, our institutions, our schools...indeed, our way of life are dependent on healthy marriages and loyalty to the vulnerable little children around our feet. — James Dobson

It was not a healthy marriage for long time. It was never about another man, it was about what my and Dennis's relationship could not sustain. — Meg Ryan

Marriage provides the solace of worked-on friendship and the joy of being known profoundly. — Imogen Stubbs

Marriage wisdom quote Every time you judge someone else, you reveal an unhealed part of yourself.
Every time you judge someone else, you reveal an unhealed part of yourself.

Feel no guilt. Getting married and giving birth does not mean that you have sold your life away to perfectly healthy people who can get their own damn socks. — Jennifer Crusie

All married couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of making love. Good battle is objective and honest - never vicious or cruel. Good battle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principles of equal partnership. — Ann Landers

A good marriage is not one where perfection reigns: it is a relationship where a healthy perspective overlooks a multitude of "unresolvables." — James Dobson

I think long-lasting, healthy relationships are more important than the idea of marriage. At the root of every successful marriage is a strong partnership. — Carson Daly

Good Marriage Quotes

What counts in making a happy marriage is not so much how compatible you are but how you deal with incompatibility. — Leo Tolstoy

There is no more lovely, friendly, and charming relationship, communion, or company than a good marriage. — Martin Luther

A successful marriage is made up of two good forgivers. - Ruth Graham

A successful marriage is made up of two good forgivers. — Ruth Graham

Marriage wisdom quote Stop trying to calm the storm. Calm yourself, the storm will pass.
Stop trying to calm the storm. Calm yourself, the storm will pass.

A good marriage is where both people feel like they're getting the better end of the deal. — Anne Lamott

Love is missing someone whenever you're apart, but somehow feeling warm inside because you're close in heart. — Kai Knudsen

A good marriage does not require a perfect man or a perfect woman. It only requires a man and a woman committed to strive together toward perfection. — Dallin H. Oaks

A good marriage would be between a blind wife and a deaf husband. - Michel de Montaigne

A good marriage would be between a blind wife and a deaf husband. — Michel de Montaigne

The mark of a good marriage is when only one of you goes crazy at a time! — Heinz Kohut

In a good relationship, people get angry, but in a very different way. The Marriage Masters see a problem a bit like a soccer ball. They kick it around. It's 'our' problem. — John M. Gottman

One who marries for love alone will have bad days but good nights. — African Proverbs

Strong Marriage Quotes

A strong marriage requires two people who choose to love each other even on those days when they struggle to like each other. — Dave Willis

Love does not come to those who seek it, but to those who give love. It is a binding force between souls who have nothing to give but themselves to one another. — Harold Klemp

Marriage is like a well-built porch. If one of the two posts leans too much, the porch collapses. So each must be strong enough to stand on its own. — Deb Caletti

Marriage wisdom quote Silence is better than bullshit.
Silence is better than bullshit.

A strong marriage requires loving your spouse even in those moments when they aren't being lovable; it means believing in them even when they struggle to believe in themselves. — Dave Willis

The old welfare system was hurting people by discouraging work and marriage. Welfare reform, and now this legislation, will build on the understanding that work and strong families are the foundation upon which we build our future. — Jim Talent

It takes something to get married: nerve, hope, a strong desire to make a certain statement - and it takes something to stay married: more hope, determination, a sense of humor, and needs that are best met by being in a pair. — Amy Bloom

Marriage wisdom quote Do not correct a fool or he will hate you. Correct a wise man and he will appreciate you.
Do not correct a fool or he will hate you. Correct a wise man and he will appreciate you.

Marriage has the power to set the course of your life as a whole. If your marriage is strong, even if all the circumstances in your life around you are filled with trouble and weakness, it won't matter. You will be able to move out into the world in strength. — Timothy Keller

Love is not weakness. It is strong. Only the sacrament of marriage can contain it. — Boris Pasternak

Whoever invented marriage was an ingenious tormentor. It is an institution committed to the dulling of the feelings. The whole point of marriage is repetition. The best it aims for is the creation of strong, mutual dependencies. — Susan Sontag

Marriage is tough, because it is woven of all these various elements, the weak and the strong. "In love-ness" is fragile for it is woven only with the gossamer threads of beauty. It seems to me absurd to talk about "happy" and "unhappy" marriages. — Anne Morrow Lindbergh

Married Life Quotes

I love being married. It's so great to find that one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life. — Rita Rudner

I have learned that a woman can be a fighter, a freedom fighter, a political activist, and that she can fall in love, and be loved, she can be married, have children, be a mother... Revolution must mean life also; every aspect of life. — Leila Khaled

One of life's greatest mysteries is how the boy who wasn't good enough to marry your daughter can be the father of the smartest grandchild in the world. — Yiddish Proverbs

Marriage wisdom quote A mistake repeated more than once is a decision.
A mistake repeated more than once is a decision.

A man doesn't know what happiness is until he's married. By then it's too late. — Frank Sinatra

The touchstone for family life is still the legendary 'and so they were married and lived happily ever after.' It is no wonder that any family falls short of this ideal. — Salvador Minuchin

What goes around, comes around. — Willie Nelson

The days were sunny, the nights were star-studded. Indeed married life was strawberries for breakfast and loving all the time. — Marabel Morgan

Those seeking the life of the spirit should be cheerful and free, and not neglect recreation. Married people must act in conformity with their vocation--but their progress will of necessity be but the pace of a hen. — Teresa of Avila

The fairy tales of how life is ‘supposed to be going’ will f*ck up your life. You don’t have to go to university at 18, get a job at 21, buy a house at 30, get married at 35, and have kids at 36. Everyone is completely different, and your path to happiness will be completely different too. — Steven Bartlett

I want Thy plan, O God, for my life. May I be happy and contented whether in the homeland or on the foreign field; whether married or alone, in happiness or sorrow, health or sickness, prosperity or adversity -- I want Thy plan, O God, for my life. I want it; oh, I want it. — Oswald J. Smith

Wonderful Marriage Quotes

Marriage is a wonderful institution, but who wants to live in an institution? - Groucho Marx

Marriage is a wonderful institution, but who wants to live in an institution? — Groucho Marx

For you wake one day, look around and say, somebody wonderful married me. — Fred Ebb

Take care of him. And make him feel important. And if you can do that, you'll have a happy and wonderful marriage. Like two out of every ten couples. — Neil Simon

A career is a wonderful thing, but you can't snuggle up to it at night. — Marilyn Monroe

'If You Could Read My Mind' was written during the collapse of my marriage. It's a great song. No one has any gripes about it. I wondered what my wife and daughter might think. My daughter is the one who got me to correct 'The feelings that you lacked' to 'The feelings that we lacked'. — Gordon Lightfoot

Marriage is a wonderful invention: then again, so is a bicycle repair kit. — Billy Connolly

When the first fossils began to be found in eastern Africa, in the late 1950s, I thought, what a wonderful marriage this was, biology and anthropology. I was around 16 years old when I made this particular choice of academic pursuit. — Donald Johanson

My parents have a wonderful marriage, for many years. But I can't commit myself for such a long time. — Kim Wilde

Elections are a good deal like marriages. There's no accounting for anyone's taste. Every time we see a bridegroom we wonder why she ever picked him, and it's the same with public officials. — Will Rogers

The groom always smiles proudly because he's convinced he's accomplished something quite wonderful. The bride smiles because she's been able to convince him of it. — Judith McNaught

Successful Marriage Quotes

A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person. — Mignon McLaughlin

(Was he talking about a polar expedition, or marriage?) -Jorge Men Wanted: For hazardous journey. Small wages, bitter cold, long months of complete darkness, constant danger, safe return doubtful. Honour and recognition in case of success. — Ernest Shackleton

giving the utmost of herself to three absorbing interests [marriage, motherhood, career] ... was a problem for a superwoman, and a job for a superwoman, and only some such fabled being could have accomplished it with success. — Storm Jameson

If I seek to fulfill my own needs at the expense of my partner, we are sure to experience unhappiness, resentment, and conflict. The secret of forming a successful relationship is for both partners to win. — John Gray

The great secret of a successful marriage is to treat all disasters as incidents and none of the incidents as disasters. — Harold Nicolson

The secret to a happy marriage? Do whatever your wife tells you. 'Yes, dear.' And breathe. — Denzel Washington

In Hollywood a marriage is a success if it outlasts milk. — Rita Rudner

For marriage to be a success, every woman and every man should have her and his own bathroom. The end. — Catherine Zeta-Jones

I think marriage is dangerous. The idea of two people trying to possess each other is wrong. I don't think the flare of love lasts. Your mind rather than your emotions must answer for the success of matrimony. It must be friendship - a calm companionship which can last through the years. — Carole Lombard

Success in marriage is more than finding the right person: it is being the right person. — Robert Browning

Life Wisdom Quotes

Give the ones you love wings to fly, roots to come back and reasons to stay. — Dalai Lama

Let us not take ourselves too seriously. None of us has a monopoly on wisdom. — Queen Elizabeth II

When the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser. — Socrates

I'd rather die on my feet, than live on my knees. — Emiliano Zapata

Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid. — Albert Einstein

Science is organized knowledge. Wisdom is organized life. - Immanuel Kant

Science is organized knowledge. Wisdom is organized life. — Immanuel Kant

True wisdom comes to each of us when we realize how little we understand about life, ourselves, and the world around us. — Socrates

There comes a point when you either embrace who and what you are, or condemn yourself to be miserable all your days. Other people will try to make you miserable; don't help them by doing the job yourself. — Laurell K. Hamilton

My choice early in life was either to be a piano player in a whorehouse or a politician. To tell the truth, there's hardly a difference. — Harry S. Truman

If you talk to the animals they will talk with you and you will know each other. If you do not talk to them you will not know them and what you do not know, you will fear. What one fears, one destroys. — Chief Dan George

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More Marriage Wisdom Quotes

What can you do to promote world peace? Go home and love your family. — Mother Teresa

When talking about marriage, Allah says your spouses are garments for you. A garment may or may not fit perfectly-but either way, it covers imperfections, protects, and beautifies. — Yasmin Mogahed

Absence is to love as wind is to fire: it extinguishes the little flame, it fans the big. — Umberto Eco

Love seems the swiftest, but it is the slowest of all growths. No man or woman really knows what perfect love is until they have been married a quarter of a century. — Mark Twain

Find the person who will love you because of your differences and not in spite of them and you have found a lover for life. — Leo Buscaglia

Lovers don't finally meet somewhere. They're in each other all along. — Rumi

The best way to remember your wife's birthday is to forget it once. — Herbert V. Prochnow

Well, you know, the definition of second marriage is the triumph of hope over experience. — George Will

Love seems the swiftest, but it is the slowest of growths — Mark Twain

The triumph of hope over experience. — Samuel Johnson

An epigram is the marriage of wit and wisdom; a wisecrack, their divorce. — Evan Esar

Conventional wisdom tells us we'll only be happier after a divorce if the marriage itself was a war zone. — Ariel Gore

I want my husband to lead me and our family. But in order for him to do that I must be willing to submit to his lead. This does not mean I surrender my opinions or input or wisdom...it means I surrender my grip of control and selfish ways and trust him! — Jennifer E. Smith

Your most vital necessity in this life is that you shall love your wife completely and implicitly and in an entire nakedness of body and spirit.... this that I tell you is my message as far as I've got any. — D. H. Lawrence

I understand the need to serve the community by talking about marriage or halal food. But you should also lead with vision, wisdom and courage. — Tariq Ramadan

Liberal hostility to the traditional family helped to undermine centuries of accumulated wisdom and experience about what was best for children and adults. Far from benefiting only men, marriage confers enormous advantages on women and children as well - a fact that has been thrown into sharp relief by its breakdown over the past forty years. — Mona Charen

Music is the marriage of the feelings of the living to the wisdom of the dead. — Cass McCombs

[Marriage is] like signing a 356-page contract without knowing what's in it. — Ken Blanchard

We will come to understand the part a difficult circumstance has played in our lives. Hindsight makes so much clear. The broken marriage, the lost job, the loneliness have all contributed to who we are becoming. The joy of the wisdom we are acquiring is that hindsight comes more quickly. We can, on occasion, begin to accept a difficult situation's contribution to our wholeness while caught in the turmoil. — Karan Casey

Wisdom is nothing more than the marriage of intelligence and compassion. And, as with all good unions, it takes much experience and time to reach its widest potential. Have you introduced your intellect to your compassion yet? Be careful; lately, intellect has taken to eating in front of the TV and compassion has taken in too many cats. — Vera Nazarian

Ruth and I don't have a perfect marriage, but we have a great one. How can I say two things that seem so contradictory? In a perfect marriage, everything is always the finest and best imaginable; like a Greek statue, the proportions are exact and the finish is unblemished. Who knows any human being lke that? For a marriage couple to expect perfection in each other is unrealistic. — Billy Graham

Lots of people have asked me what Gracie and I did to make our marriage work. It's simple - we don't do anything. I think the trouble with a lot of people is that they work too hard at staying married. They make a business out of it. When you work too hard at a business you get tired; and when you get tired you get grouchy; and when you get grouchy you start fighting; and when you start fighting you're out of business. — George Burns

The American people intuitively understand this, which is why the majority of Catholics practice birth control and some of those opposed to gay marriage nevertheless are opposed to a Constitutional amendment to ban it. Religious leadership need not accept such wisdom in counseling their flocks, but they should recognize this wisdom in their politics. — Barack Obama

Falling in love is the beginning of all wisdom, all sympathy, all compassion, all art, all religion; and in it's larger sense is the one thing in life worth doing. — Elbert Hubbard

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